As parents we always want the best for our children. It’s important that we teach our kids how to take care of themselves, find balance in spite of the hectic demands of work and house life. In a time when we are constantly striving to do everything for our children, teaching them some fundamental skills about responsibility will help them learn how to rely on themselves.
Ms. Devina Kaur, Author, Too Fat Too Loud Too Ambitious says, “It would seem like a huge load lifted when you see your child develop into a responsible adult. Even young children who understand their responsibilities will feel strong and capable. Additionally, it will help them keep their sense of worth and give their lives meaning.

Know your child:
Learn what works for your child specifically before you try to assist them. Don’t give orders, always give directions that are very clear. Every child is different and unique, therefore learn about your child’s peculiarities in order to effectively instill responsibility in them.

Accept their emotions:

It is heartbreaking for parents to watch their child make mistakes. Let your child occasionally experience the results of making a mistake, as long as the consequences are manageable. Although it might seem harsh now, it’s a good tool to ensure that your child remembers the importance of responsibility.

Be an example for them:

“You are the ideal person to show your children how to behave responsibly because you are their parent, mentor and primary caregiver. You must express to your children that you are trustworthy by carrying out your everyday responsibilities,” says Kaur.

Every child is different, so take the time to learn about their needs. If you are doing your best as a parent, your child will naturally follow you.