Her story: I had a love marriage and we even dated for 3 years before going for it. However, after 2 years of marriage, I seem to have fallen out of love. I don’t miss him anymore when he goes out on his work trips and I have started resenting his touch too. I have been trying to drop so many hints but he seems to be in denial mode. He acts as if everything is alright but there is so much gap between us now. What should I do? Should I say it out loud? Will it be fine if I ask for a divorce? It is not like he has been mean to me because he hasn’t. Please help.

His story: My wife is one of the best things that have happened to my life. She has been very lucky for my family and me too. All my progress happened after she came into my house as my partner. However, these days she seems a bit off and I don’t know what is wrong. We have a set routine for everything in this house and my wife has never gone against it but these days she seems to be running away from it all. I suspect work pressure but till when? Should I address this issue with her or should I give her more space? Please guide me.

Expert advice by Vishal Bhardwaj, Founder and Relationship Coach at Predictions For Success:

To Her

First of all, you are not out of love, you are out of ideas. Love is a relentless emotion, it can not be ceased in any way. Moreover, you confess that your husband is a gem of a person. Then what’s wrong ?! Well, the only wrong is your unconditional alliance with the outer world and unforgivable apathy towards your own beautiful world. The marriage you had, was not about draining pleasure for a certain period and calling it off when you are done with it. No! Love is an all-season emotion. You only find it boring or monotonous when you stop trying to keep it colourful. The only suggestion we have is not to consider the separation as an immediate remedy to a problem. You need to be active in your, relationship. Start reciprocating emotionally. Every single person you come across inevitably appears more perfect than your partner. But what love says is, “I am accomplished with imperfections”. Take your time, do not rush for a divorce.

For Him

Start talking to your wife more! Spend some time with her to understand what she wants. If you keep loving someone in your heart but without any physical effort, nothing will be fruitful. You have to be present there with her. Hold a conversation with her and ask what exactly is bothering her in your marriage. Try to fix that as a First Aid and then look for other things in your relationship.

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